If you want to be successful ( winner ) in life, build a good relationship with others. Behave well and be kind to others.  Those who have a good attitude are accepted in the society and always welcome by others. Do you want to be a respectable person? Yes? Followings are some needful steps you can follow.

Give encouragement.

Encourage and appreciate others as much as you can (a genuine and honest appreciation). Encouragement has more effect than punishment. Reward other for good behavior

Give respect.

 When you will respect others they will respect you.

Greet people with a smile.

A smile can change one’s life. It will bridge you with others.

Be interested in people.

When you will be interested in others they will be interested in you. Show you real concerns in others to make one understand that you really care for others.

Give positive compliments.

Develop the habit of paying at least five to six sincere compliments.

Show humbleness to people

A humbled person is respected by all, showing low-profile will remove the barriers between you and other.

Attract people.

Attract people by doing/acting what they want and like.

Understand and forgive

Instead of rejecting people, consider yourself in his/her situation and think accordingly.

Respects others point of view

Get the person’s point of view and see things from that person’s angle as well as yours.

Give people honest appreciation

 To know all is to forgive all

Say sorry

If you are wrong admit it and say sorry.

 

Don’t interrupt others while speaking

Let others speak first and listen to them carefully. This will put a good impression on others. Saying less and listening is the best policy to win others.

Choose of words

Build a skill of using powerful words while talking.

Learn the background and interest of everyone surrounding you

Do the same as you want from others.

If you want others to like or helps you, do the same with them. Because for every action there is the same reaction.

Don’t complain, and Judge

Don’t judge and disapprove a personal point of view. It will wound a personal pride, hurt his sense of importance.

Don’t reject

Never say ‘’ you are wrong’’.

Be an attentive Listener

Listen to others carefully and avoid extra talking. Encourage them to talk by asking them questions. Instead of the good speaker just become a good prober.

If you want to be successful in life, build a good relationship with others. Behave well and be kind to others.  Those who have a good attitude are accepted in the society and always welcome by others. Do you want to be a respectable person? Yes? Followings are some needful steps you can follow.